(First, the story behind the video)
Last weekend, all of my brothers and sisters and I were granted by the Lord the great privilege and honor of being with our parents, Vaughn and Lorna Paradise, as they celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. A lovely party was put together, complete with decorations, dinner, and dancing, and it was all just as beautiful and sweet as one could have hoped for. The room was filled with family and friends, and laughter and smiles, and kisses and hugs, and a whole lot of love, to be sure. But as anyone who has ever been to a Paradise Family gathering knows, there is always the possibility of a surprise that makes the occasion extra-memorable, and we were certainly not to be disappointed this time!
The great surprise of the night came from our father who, unbeknownst to the rest of us, had quietly planned a humble expression of love to his bride that turned out to be one of the most amazingly romantic and touching moments I have ever witnessed in my entire life. We had all finished eating and were conversing at our tables, when someone quieted the room to allow Grandpa Vaughn to say a few words. He rose to his feet as his granddaughter Vitoria brought him a vase of roses. After cracking a joke about having the right to "embarass his offspring," he suddenly became very serious. He asked Grandma Lorna to stand, and he told her the roses were for her. He then cleared his throat and, to the utter astonishment of the gathered onlookers, began singing her an
a capella rendition of the old Jim Reeves song, "Roses."
Roses
I send you roses
With all the love
Their tender blossoming discloses
Just like my arms
They'll open wide
You'll see my heart inside
Please dear
Embrace the roses
Until I come to you
And when the long day closes
Our spark of love
Will burst to flame
And put the red red roses to shame
Halfway through, he quietly broke down, overcome with emotion. Grandma Lorna smiled and told him to keep singing. He then soldiered (or rather, "airmanned") his way through to the end. Whether or not he sang the song perfectly on key or exactly as written is of no importance. His message was as clear as a bell... that this beautiful woman was his beloved bride, the great love of his life, and he wanted her to hear this from him in front of all the family members who were present to witness it. And for those who were unable to be there, this video of that moment is for you.
[Double-click on the video for full-screen]
It has long been known that the Paradise boys (and girls) are hopeless romantics, and we have always suspected it was due to something in our DNA. And this just confirmed it. Thank you, Dad, for doing this for Mom. I know it took a lot of courage to do, but it showed us just how strong true love can be, even after 60 years of marriage. And this great love the two of you share truly is an amazing inspiration to us all.